'Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.' - George Bernard Shaw
The past decade has been a transformational journey of change and growth. As I celebrate entering the second half of my thirties, I'm taking time to reflect on the shifts that have reshaped my perspective and priorities.
The gradual fading of high school friendships as people moved and life took us in different directions has been bitter sweet. The car community I was once active in also dissipated as my interests evolved. These experiences highlighted how external factors can reshape our social connections over time.
Letting go of the powerlifting and coffee competitions that previously occupied my time was necessary self-reflection. It allowed me to focus more intentionally on exploring new interests, developing my business and becoming aware of what genuinely resonates with me.
With each opening location within Sydney brought a fresh start. From Glebe, Darlinghurst, St Leonards and coming this year, Chatswood. Each space I've formed new community ties and appreciated the gifts each area offers. These moves have been catalysts for adaptation and growth. While establishing local connections in St Leonards has had unforeseen challenges, it's been a thought-provoking learning curve. I'm studying how to create inclusive spaces and trying new approaches to building community. Though difficult at times, these experiences create growth opportunities.
On a different level, building my online and in-person breathwork and meditation community over the past few years has been incredibly rewarding. Launching two newsletters and podcasts has allowed me to build new communities while engaging in meaningful work.
Now on a personal level, getting married and reconnecting with family have nurtured my appreciation for intimate relationships. My roles within my family continue to evolve as we support each other's growth. Cultivating quality time together is now a priority in how I spend my energy.
As I turn 36, I feel equipped with these lessons and ready to welcome the surprises and unknowns ahead. I envision deepening ties both locally and online, expanding my reach and evolving my business naturally in alignment with my values. I'm open to revisiting past interests like travel, powerlifting or cars in new ways. My social circles will continue to shift emphasising quality over quantity and meaningful shared interests.
Above all, I plan to embrace life's changes with optimism and an open heart. I look forward to each moment as an opportunity for personal growth and positive contribution to my community. There are sure to be challenges that catalyse growth, new perspectives that shift my priorities and surprises that bring pain and joy. I'm grateful you're here with me on this never-ending adventure of life.
Turning 36: A Journey of Adaptation, Exploration, and Community Building